Growing up on a farm the impact of my surroundings and the
need for light and fresh air came home to me after I attended a London
University ! So it’s no surprise that I’ve developed a
keen interest in Feng Shui. In my own
language, this is about having a physical environment that works to support me
in my life. This includes being as
mindful of the negative power of clutter as I am of the positive elements in my
environment.
An interesting point that Karen Kingston makes in her book, Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui, is that the negative effect
of clutter can be far more powerful than the positive energy of anything
else. Clutter clearing is contagious,
having cleared my office, I moved to my wardrobe including my underwear! Pareto’s principle of 80:20 suggests that
80% of our time we wear 20% of our clothes.
Having helped many clients over the years, I concur. Fortunately, I’ve applied what I teach
generally but some areas are creeping towards 60:40, most notably my underwear
and socks! Suffice to say I found it
liberating only keeping the ones I wear regularly! Our theory at House of Colour is that you’ll
only wear something uncomfortable 3 times before overlooking it in favour of
something else when choosing what to wear.
This is especially true of underwear!
So do yourself a favour, be honest - if in doubt, chuck it out! Or at
least put it in a bag with today’s date on it – if in 12 months time you
haven’t been into the bag, then it’s time to get rid of it… without taking a
sneaky look at what’s inside!
My husband’s wardrobe didn’t survive completely unscathed
but a cautionary word of advice here from Karen and myself – don’t try clearing
other people’s clutter! After a painful
process several years ago, I’ve managed to keep on top of this and learnt how
to work with my husband. I am currently
learning how to work with my children! If you want more tips, read Chapter 14 of her book!
The contagion is spreading; several of my friends have
reported that they’re starting to clutter clear as a result of me sharing my
experiences! And there are many charity
shops who are able to recycle fabrics as well as clothes and are extremely
grateful for anything that doesn’t make it past the EBay apathy!
The process:
1.
Prioritise:
a.
Identify all the areas that hold clutterb. Grade them on a scale of 1-10 by how much they annoy you
c. Grade them on a scale of how big or small they are
d. Start with the smallest areas that bug you the most to get the quick win
2.
Have boxes to sort the clutter into:
a.
Fixing/mendingb. Cleaning
c. Returning to their owners
d. Charity shop/Ebay .. but make sure it’s done within the week otherwise it becomes
another source of clutter
e. Filing – to be deposited in the rightful places around your home – but don’t do it until
you’ve finished clearing otherwise you’ll get distracted
f. Throwing away
3.
Sorting / Filing:
a.
When replacing your cleared belongings, file
them according to function/purpose/colour so that they are easily found
b. Keep all things visible. Out of sight is out of mind and you’ll forget they exist if they’re
hidden in a corner of your wardrobe.
c. Lifestyle – recognise how you spend your time and keep your clothes in proportion to
this. 10 ball dresses are fine if you go to several each year!
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