Having been
heavily involved in the world of colour for many years, I’m used to meeting
people who suddenly become conscious of the colours they are, or more probably
are not, wearing.
A couple of
weeks ago, I met a friend who’s going through some challenging times. She noticed she’d been wearing black recently
during a period that felt like bad news on bad news. We’ve all recovered from something in our
lives, from a lost toy as a child through to lost friends, relatives and
health. Our reaction to each event and our
recovery time, is relative to many other factors in our lives. However,
I’ve noticed colour frequently plays a part; whether it’s wearing colour as a
confidence boost or removing colour due to a knock in confidence, the colours
we surround ourselves in can give a clear indication to our emotional state.
I recall a
situation when I had an important deadline to meet at work. I woke up on the day of the deadline feeling
awful but decided that the inconvenience to myself and others of missing the
dealine through taking time off was not worth it. I put on my red top, brightly patterned skirt
and headed off to work with the intention of keeping my head down, getting the
job done and not attracting attention – I didn’t feel like interacting with
anyone.
Well blow me! Nearly everyone who walked past my desk
(remember, I’m feeling awful!) commented on how well I looked. The effect was fascinating; as the day went
on, I started to feel much better – the psychological impact of people saying I
looked well rather than a sympathetic ‘Are you OK? You look a bit tired!’ was
profound.
Feng Shui, Chakras and other energy
disciplines understand that colours carry energy and represent elements of our
life. Why else would we decide that
today is the day for the red (green/blue/yellow/brown) item of clothing? Therefore, it stands to reason that our mood
can dictate the colour choice or the colour choice can influence the mood. Chromatherapy uses colours to actively promote healing and there
are lots of references to the energy of colours and what they mean.
Two years ago my winter wardrobe was almost exclusively in the Burgundy/Purple/Smoked Grape/Pink range – incoroporating the need for love, grounding, creativity and homeliness… I was ‘recovering’ from the birth of my second child.
The
following summer, I wore almost exclusively blues and pinks – incorporating comunication,
peace, relaxation, safety, security and love.
So, how interesting to come across this really candid article written by Jenni Murray relating to her experience of wearing black almost from the day she was diagnosed with cancer. I can relate to everything she says about herself but also about her friends who’ve done the opposite and used colour to give themselves a boost through their recovery. It’s easy to give advice from the outside about what we can do to improve our outlook, not so easy from the inside.
The power of
image is subtle and yet immense. If the
image and perception is healthy, we feel uplifted, if the image and perception
is less favourable we can feel downhearted; sometimes we’re just not ready to
feel better.
So what
small steps can you take to enhance your reflection while keeping a low profile?
Have a
colour consultation to find out what colours suit you and put these colours
around your face so your reflection is lifted.
- Make-up: knowing your colours enables you to achieve the subtle, natural glow
- Hair colour: match warm tone skin with warm tone hair, and cool tone skin with cool tone hair. Anything else competes and drains you.
- Jewellery: Use the right metal colour for you (silver or gold), choosing beads, pearls and stones in your colours can bring real joy.
- Tops and scarves: Choose the colours which reflect your healthy, positive, confident side to feel happier and more at ease in your skin (i.e. with your reflection).
Have a style
consultation to identify flattering styles for your body … the one that you
have now. Learn to choose the right:
- Shapes
- Proportions
- Neck lines
- Patterns
Jenni closes
her article by saying:
‘I see a different woman from the one
before. I’d like to see her in the pink,
but am not sure I ever will’
When the
desire to achieve that goal becomes strong enough or the pain of sitting in the
dark becomes intolerable, or we wake up one morning and decide to do something
different, it’s amazing what can happen. With all these tools at hand, a dash
of courage, a little action every day and a lot of friendship, love and
support, you’ll be amazed at what is possible when you embrace The Healing Power of Colour.
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