Gok’s Style Secrets and Showing your assets

Gok’s back, Girlfriends!

A new 6-part series with tips on dating, finding self-confidence and love.  A bit more than style secrets, but if it makes a positive difference in someone’s life, I’m all for it! 

At House of Colour, we have never professed to the latter, however, after nearly 30 years’ experience of Personal style and branding, we have seen people, time after time, finding self-confidence, which frequently leads to positive life changes. 

The good news?  It’s not much of a secret.

The secret, is confidently dressing your true self, i.e. KNOWING what works for you.  Therein lies the problem, KNOWING is a challenge given that it’s difficult, if not impossible to be objective about yourself.    Friends and family knowing you well can’t usually provide objectivity either.

Zoe, tonight’s subject, kept her familiar [safe] territory, Goth!  

With a full bust and a complex about having a large midriff, Gok immediately identified and revealed her waist as her best asset.  Hiding under androgynous shapes is inappropriate.  Straight gothic looks are appropriate for straight body shapes, not Zoe’s.

By drawing attention to your assets, your body transforms, big bums, become curvaceous hips, team this with a full bust and waist and you have an hourglass figure – a million miles from androgynous.

When a client who didn’t like her ‘big boobs’ was told she could show off her cleavage, she was absolutely fine with that!   

It’s all about perspective, how we see ourselves gives how we dress for the outside world. 

Given the gift of objectivity, we are able to reverse the process.  Presenting your true self to the world can change the way you see yourself, often leading to a confidence boost.

 “The thing that changed me is being able to feel like a woman and liking myself”

Congratulations Zoe!  Couldn’t have said it better! Great job!

 

BBC Sports Personality of the Year: Inspiring Colours

Congratulations everyone! What a fantastic year.

I’m not a Sports fanatic, but I do love to watch a variety of disciplines, especially given the amazing summer of 2012.  As a Personal Style Consultant, in the background I’m wondering about people’s colour and style choices. 

Invariably it’s about choosing something appropriate to the occasion, hence lots of men in suits.  It also has to express the wearer’s personality - how appropriate then that the ‘Sports Personality’ himself, Bradley Wiggins, chose a quirky, on trend, velvet, double breasted suit, rather than the classic we’d expect and was delivered by Lord Coe?

Practicality is a good word to bear in mind when selecting your choice of outfit, this is where men definitely have the advantage.  The challenges of standing up from your chair and walking those long lonely steps to the stage with the eyes of the nation on you cannot be underestimated.

Jessica Ennis and the Duchess of Cambridge both chose Classic glamour with small details expressing their personality, simple lines with the main statement being through their choice of a strong, bold colour.

So I was left with a question:  Jessica’s choice of red seemed obvious, a confident and bold colour appropriate to her achievements, but the Duchess of Cambridge left me wondering about her choice of green; without knowing what her season is, a cooler, lighter or brighter shade may have suited her better, potentially a critical decision in her state of pregnancy, it’s the 3^rd trimester where you are meant to bloom! 

So WHY particularly that shade? And then it came to me –as with all branding, and this is personal branding, she is representing the event, the product and herself.  What better choice of dress than a sleek, elegant, understated dress (it wasn’t her show after all) in the most appropriate colour for sport after our patriotic red, white and blue, known to us all as British Racing Green?

An inspired choice!

 

 

 

Choosing the Perfect Party Dress

It’s that time of year again to get the Christmas party outfit. Worried about what to wear? Do what I do and take inspiration from the pantomime!

Sounds unusual? Well when you have your Personal Style done at House of Colour they associate your clothing personality with a pantomime character. If you haven’t done your Personal Style Day yet, think back to your childhood and the character you liked to play when you raided the dressing up box. Although the characters of the pantomime are extreme, their attributes can help you understand your clothing personality.

Fairy Godmother from Wizard of Oz

I’m a Romantic and my pantomime character is the fairy godmother. Think the glamorous, glitzy saviour of the princess with a soft side (but if you’ve ever seen Shrek 2 you know some fairy godmothers can be moody too!) 

The fairy godmother knows grown up glamour so that’s what I look for in my Christmas party outfit.  Now I’m not intending to go to my Christmas party with wings and a wand, but I can take inspiration from the embellishments, lace and the sumptuous fabrics for my own outfit.

With that in mind I know the dress I choose will be perfect for my clothing personality and will make sure I sparkle for Christmas.


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It's Christmas - Don't Panic!

‘Twas the night before Christmas and all through the house, not a creature was stirring ............

…that’s because they were all out panic buying!  So I went looking for a bit of light entertainment prompted by considering the contents of the earlier blog entry ‘How to Avoid those Christmas Disasters’ -  “Use your initiative!”

so too, I love the initiative employed by Eddie Izzard in this self-styled video clip!

It covers:

·         Being clear – he makes a list of what he wants,

·         Having a budget … and sticking to it!

·         Researching the market – he looks into different providers

·         Thinking outside the box – most of us wouldn’t have thought of KFC as a possible   present

·         Alternative uses for things – lighters for children – not recommended, but I know my 6 year old loves to light the candles with them if he’s allowed!

·         Being resourceful – what a demon idea to get other people to help with wrapping your presents, jobs are usually so much more fun when shared!

Humour is subjective but one thing is for sure, it’s a powerful antidote to the stress of panic buying!

What tips do you have to avoid those last minute panics?

 

 

 

Retail Therapy & Christmas Shopping: Buyer beware!

·         Therapy: ‘treatment to cure or rehabilitate’

·         Retail: ‘selling goods to customers’

Retail Therapy must therefore be ‘the selling of goods to cure or rehabilitate’ which, as with any therapy will work with varying degrees of effectiveness (and cost/investment) for different people!!

Christmas in the UK becomes sensory overload and I’m guessing that ‘Christmas shopping’ doesn’t exclusively involve buying presents for someone else.  How easy to ‘treat yourself’ to something, whether on-line or through a quick diversion while out shopping!   I’m sure you could give me more examples (anonymity guaranteed!) of other forms of retail therapy. 

Positive experiences include the joy, release, satisfaction of a great find; negative experiences range from guilt, dissatisfaction, frustration through to ensuing debt. 

I’m not saying you shouldn’t indulge; it can be fun.  But how many unworn items fill your wardrobe?  Worn once then abandoned in the wardrobe? The amount spent (‘it cost a lot’) or saved (‘a bargain’), a subtle blackmailer daring you not to discard it!

Knowing my colours and styles so clearly, I enjoy indulging in a ‘little retail therapy’, getting most of the benefit and minimising the pain.  I ordered on-line items so I could clear my brain and return to work; returning the unwanted items once I’d tried them.  The effort of getting undressed for a lovely dress which was 5cm (2”) too short however, was enough for me to walk away refreshed and able to refocus on my present buying with my money still in my pocket! 

As for those unwanted presents – what about getting a gift receipt, or a gift voucher to give the recipient the joy of choosing something they really want?  I’ve just discovered that this month we’re offering free P&P on all our Gift Vouchers to help you.

 

If you’ve indulged in some retail therapy and realised on getting it home [the clothes] don’t flatter you…..Send it back - the therapeutic need was fulfilled in the purchase not the item! Save your hard earned money for something that will make you look and feel great and…

….Have a wonderful holiday season, whatever you are up to!

 

How to Avoid those Christmas Gift Disasters!

 

I’m sure we’ve all experienced that feeling of dread on Christmas morning as we unwrap yet another set of underwear or a negligee, usually in the wrong colour or size, or a king-sized box of ‘smellies’ that we’d never use!

It wasn’t until I met my husband that I realised the majority of shoppers in my local department store on the afternoon of Christmas Eve are men, mostly with a look of panic on their faces.

Recently, a friend was remembering that when she worked in Marks & Spencer’s many years ago, the store was even opened for an extra hour for MEN ONLY!

She said they’d have to let men buy the most ridiculous things, usually in the smallest size; they had to have exactly what they wanted, no amount of persuasion would be listened to and invariably, much of it was returned or exchanged in the following weeks! 

Somehow, I don’t think things have changed very much! 

If you want to avoid that Christmas gift disaster why not drop subtle (although not TOO subtle!) hints to your loved one that this year you’d prefer gift vouchers.  Like our clients, House of Colour Gift Vouchers come in all shapes and sizes, for specific classes or any amount from £25 upwards.

 

 

 

Top tips for Smoky Eyes

This trend is always popular as a Christmas party look.  While flicking through Instyle magazine recently I saw 26 different interpretations!

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It’s a scary concept for most women - how do you accomplish it without looking like a Panda!?  The answer is knowing what colours to use.  Black eye liner and mascara doesn’t work for everyone and it can be a severe look if used incorrectly.

I learnt how to create the smoky eye look at my House of Colour Make-up Class. You need to emphasise your eyes by creating a frame, using a highlighter, soft shadow shade and a defining shadow.  Using the right colours to complement your skin tone will make your eyes appear larger and brighter.

House of Colour tailors their eye shadows for each season so you can choose shades that complement each other. With a range of highlighters, soft shadows and defining shadows for each season your consultant shows you which colours to use to achieve a look that works for your eye shape.

Read more hints and tips here

As a Winter, my favourite combination uses ES72 Marshmallow as a highlighter, ES116 Pale Lilac as a soft shadow and ES191 Purple as a defining shadow – giving a smoky eye look that’s perfect to smoulder!

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